Diarist 72 was a 26-year old unmarried house painter when we met him. He was living on his inherited property, his father having died, with his mother and disabled younger sister. There is, in addition to the homestead land, farmland of 0.2 acres which has been leased out on 'rehan' terms to others to farm. A brother, 24, also unmarried, was working on construction sites in Dubai, and was remitting. The debts incurred to send him there had yet to be fully paid off. Both brothers were in school to class five. Diarist 72 was overseeing the building of a modern new family home which the two brothers were to share, financed in part by the rehan lease money.
The painting business was mostly a one-man affair, with labour hired casually when needed (Diarist 72 prefers clients to pay such labour directly). He works for private clients and gets work as and when he can, mostly by recommendation.
Diarist 72's mother was very fond of her grandson - her daughter's son - and in March 2018 he came to live with them, raising the household size to four. The next year, 2019, Diarist 72 married and brought his wife (then aged 20, with ten years schooling) home, and a child arrived the following year. That is the Covid year and he spent it mostly couped up at home, watching TV and praying. In Dubai the brother was laid off for two months without pay or food or housing: he survived on savings, meaning he was able to remit less. It was around that time that Diarist 72 started thinking he might abandon the painting business in favour of something more reliable and easier to run. We wrote an article about this kind of thinking, called 'Why do poor people settle for low-reward jobs?' featuring this Diarist (where we call him Shiraz). See the picture.
Sure enough, in early January 2021 he started planning to set up a tea shop. After Some delays he opened one, but then found many reasons not to look after it, and we concluded he wasn't serious. We found out that he was planning to go abroad: he paid a middleman 100,000 taka. Time passed and the migration plan didn't mature, and he returned a howlat he had taken for it to a friend. In late November 2022 the brother came back on leave from Dubai, got married, and returned in the middle of 2023. At that time our Diarist was still doing some painting but gradually he turned to the teashop and started working on it seriously. It became his main source of income.
In November 2023, the nephew migrated to work in Singapore, with the costs provided by his father. In due course he started to send remittances to Diarist 72, out of affection for his 'foster' home.
2025 was not a good year. In May his wife had appendicitis and in August gave up her garments job.. Then his mother was found to have cancer: after some treatment in Dhaka she died in September. In the middle of the year the household split: that is, the two brothers now run separate households, partly because 72's sister-in-law doesn't like being in a joint household. The nephew's remittances become 72's main source of income. The brother returned overseas, this time to Saudi Arabia, but because of the deteriorated relationship seems likely to send no more remittances to 72.