When we started with them in 2017 Diarist 58 was working in a garments factory close to her home, and her husband, a cobbler, was based in Dhaka, visiting occasionally and supporting the family, which included two sons and a daughter. That had been the case for about 20 years. The elder son was doing a BA course at a local college, the second son was a trainee at a motor garage, and the daughter was in class seven.
Diarist 58 is from our area but her husband is from a northern District and they lived there briefly at the start of their marriage, but moved south looking for better work opportunities. Her husband reached class 4 in school but Diarist 58 can only just write her name. They had a claim on land in the village, and in our area they have a couple of rooms on land belonging to her brothers - she feels secure there despite being 'okriet' - a term for living rent-free on someone else's land..
In late 2017, though, Diarist 58 lost her garments job because of her poor eyesight. She turned to construction work as a mason's helper and has been doing that ever since, now earning about 7,000 taka a month. In 2018 her husband was in trouble with the police in Dhaka for using marijuana and had to bribe them heavily. He retreated back to our area, doing various jobs as well as a bit of shoe repair. Finally he got a more regular job as a gardener and cleaner at a local technical college, and is still dong that, at 8,000 taka a month..
In 2019 her husband sold a very small part of the land back in the village and then in late 2024 , when his parents died and the land was distributed among the children, they decided they were not interested in owning village land, and sold it. It was by far the biggest transaction we have seen them make. They may use the money to buy land locally, they say, to avoid the stigma of being okreit : this despite the fact they had spent money in 2023 on improvements to their rooms on her brothers' land.
The land sale enabled them to pay dowry to the boy whom their daughter had secretly married in mid 2021. Diarist 58's husband was very upset by this marriage and refused to visit his daughter when she had a child in a hospital. Diarist 58 is trying to restore relations. Meanwhile the older son had developed asthma and in mid 2023 was in India for treatment: he is continuing as a student while working part-time at a chemical factory. The younger son is a motor mechanic at a local garage.
Chart 01 shows how, with this mix of incomes, they have managed a surplus most months.