Diarist 65, who was schooled up to class 4, went to work in Dubai as a maid, was sick, and returned after three months, still owing money to migration agents. She is married to an unschooled ferry boatman (who can also cook professionally) and they have a son who left school after class 4 and was a driver when we started with them: Diarist 65 wanted him to go abroad. There are two daughters (15 and 9 when we met them) in school, and Diarist 65's mother lived with them in an old-fashioned mud house that she wanted to rebuild because she thought it unsafe. They own the homestead land on which it sits but have a boundary dispute with her uncle who lives next door
She is a cleaner at the public hospital's ICU and emergency floor. She started as a substitute worker but has lobbied, so far unsuccessfully, to get formal employment status as a '4th Class Employee' like Diarist 27 and his wife. When we started she was earning 3,000 taka a month for a very long and arduous day, and it hasn't increased much since. She also gets occasional tips from patients. That pattern of earning - hospital work, boatman, and driver - persisted for some years. The son is not very active, and earns little or nothing: Diarist 65 got him a passport as early as 2017 though he didn't leave for many years. Meanwhile there was heavy expenditure on repairs to her husband's boat, and to their home, and she was still trying to pay off the debts from her own spell abroad. In 2021 her older daughter married, and the costs were found from borrowing and gifts as well as from income. In 2022 a granddaughter was born. Around that time the younger daughter contracted a love marriage but when the families came to register it formally the authorities declared the couple underage and they were unable to proceed. Later that year Diarist 65 had 7,000 taka stolen from her home.
Her husband, ten years her senior, gave up being a boatman. He tried driving an e-rickshaw but that was also too strenuous. Later they put money together to buy a better electric rickshaw and soon after that a replacement battery for it. But his condition worsened and in mid 2025 he had a major operation. Diarist 65 began to be paid officially and opened a formal Bank account to receive the wage. In 2024 she was busy finding money to send the son overseas: at the turn of the year to 2025 she paid out altogether 335,000 taka, raised mainly from howlats. On 26th January 2025 the son left for Saudi Arabia.