We met our first Diarist 50 when he was 24. He was from a poorer northern District but had passed his High School graduating exam before coming to our area about 4 years previously looking for work. All he found was a job as a helper in a small snack restaurant. He slept in the workroom at the back of the shop, ate shop food for free, and saved most of his small wage. His parents are illiterate but have a third of an acre of farmland. There was a younger brother, in school, whom Diarist 50 supported by sending money home via the Mobile Money company bKash. An older sister had married but not properly formalised the marriage and Diarist 50 was also eager to rectify that.
His ambition was to go abroad, and he was preparing for this. By late 2016 he had acquired a passport. A year later, in October 2017, the family sold some land at a low price because there were other claimants to the title. They also sold a cow. The sister's husband's family was paid a dowry and the marriage formalised, and building supplies were bought to rebuild the dilapidated family home. The next month they paid a migration agent and in April 2018 he flew to Saudi Arabia. Details of this story are given in a blog we published at the time (pictured).
Initially we had trouble contacting him by phone, and we decided to ask his very cooperative mother, back in the village, to become our Diarist. Their story then becomes one of a poor rural family farming and getting remittances from their son. Remittances were slow to start as the original Diarist had trouble finding a job that he liked in Saudi Arabia. But the debts taken to send him there are paid off and leased-out land recovered. They get for the first time an electricity connection. The job in Saudi is suspended during the Covid crisis but then resumes.
In 2022 they succeed in sending their second son to Saudi, too, and in late 2024 the original Diarist comes home on extended leave and gets married in April 2025.
Chart 01 shows how occasional remittances allow the household to weather deficit months in their farming life.