Diarist 60 is a traditional birth attendant - a 'dai'- who has had training to modernise her skills, so that she knows when it is safe for her to complete a delivery and when she should take the patient to the hospital. She gets paid 'tips' by her patients but she also gets an allowance if she takes difficult cases to hospital. She has some government-provided kit. She reckons she has delivered more than 300 babies in her career. She is literate, having reached class 8. She also rears goats (picture).
She had five sons before she was divorced in 2011. Her husband has moved off to live with his new wife while she continues to live in the marital home, a large traditional mud-walled structure which still belongs to the husband but which will be divided among their sons on his death. Diarist 60 has a complex relationship with her sons, four of whom have married of whom one (son number 3) is twice divorced and was living with his mother along with a son,when we took them on in 2017. This 3rd son had been working in Dubai, then moved in with his mother, unemployed, then in mid 2018 remarried and moved to a job in Gazipur leaving his son with Diarist 60. This boy later got a casual job as an assistant in a photo studio/photocopying shop run by his uncle.
Several of the sons have lived at the home intermittently but independently, so Diarist 60's own household has consisted of two or three people depending where the 3rd son is. In mid 2024 she bribes the police to release the third son, who had been charged with marijuana addiction.
In chart 01 Diarist 60's affairs look fairly settled on the income side - she sells goats occasionally, and gets frequent tips for delivering babies. As with many Diarists, there is a sudden dip in April 2020 when the Covid lockdown strikes. On the spending side she buys shares of a cow to sacrifice at the Eid festival, and makes a few other big outgoings for home improvement and family matters. On a monthly basis, she has been in surplus most of the time.
Charts 01 and 02 show a marriage in mid 2024. That was the marriage of her grandson by her first son - not the grandson who lives with her.