Their big expenditures couldn't be easily handled with the relatively modest gifts, nor paid for out of current income. So Diarist 18 turned to loans. His wife has 'memberships' in two major MFIs, Pidim and SSS, and has borrowed from them, on and off, throughout the period. They are not the biggest loans, though. The informal howlats (interest-free local loans) are bigger. Indeed, the three biggest loans - with values of 100,000 taka or more - are all howlats. All three were taken in 2023, for home construction and marriages. The nine loans that are next-biggest in value, from 48,000 to 80,000, are all from MFIs: they were used for home construction mostly, but also a little to repay howlats, finance marriages, and to buy his son a smartphone. None were business, or 'income generating' loans, which is what MFIs advertise as the main purpose of their loans. Then there are 20 smaller loans, ranging from 200 to 40,000 taka, mostly howlats but including a few MFI loans.
Who were the lenders who provided these howlats? Without exception all were from Diarist 18's extended family: married daughters and sons-in-laws above all. The big three loans were, in order of value, from the 3rd son-in-law, the 4th son-in-law, and the 2nd son-in-law. So the children who married first provided much of the finance for the marriages of those who married later.
With the horizontal scale in chart 03 the same as in chart 01, it is easy to see the relationship between several of these loans and the household's main expenditures.